In this breakdown I'm going to share with you the number charisma hack that Arnold has used again and again be the super loved man that he is today.

I'm talking about the cocky and funny technique, one of the most important techniques ever discovered in the pickup world, this is a very powerful technique that builds a frame where you position yourself as higher status or higher value, in a way that makes people laugh accepting your higher value or status unconsciously.

And this means that people will look at you like you are something special, and a lot of women will feel attraction for you.

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David Letterman: Now you are a major start in this country!

Arnold: oh thank you.

Imitating a very shy person, but obviously not being shy.

This is the first application of the cocky and funny technique right here.

He is applying this technique by acting all cocky and funny, of course, here he is exagerating the shyness, which is very cocky, he is having fun imitating a very shy, humble person, exaggerating it to a ridiculous level, whenever you exaggerate something, it becomes a joke, so it adds this layer of fun, of self-amusement, and of course this implies that in reality, he is so confident, so cocky that he can even make fun of being called a major star.

He is like yeah of course, I know I’m a major star, and I'm not even impacted by that.

Other starts when they become famous they talk about how much their lives have changed, how this new found fame has impacted them, how they stay humble despite the fame, etc.

But not Arnold, Arnold makes fun of all of this. That’s the principle of being cocky and funny, a very powerful technique proven to work, to spike that attraction in women. And also get other men laughing and approving you.

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Arnold understands the difficulty of achieving his goals, that there’s going to be hard work involved, but he is willing to put in the work to get to where he wants to go.
This is the mentality of a person that understands how reality works.

Humans are conditioned to think that they are very limited in what they can or cannot do, their minds are closed to the idea that they can decide on who they want to be, and then go out there and work to become that person.

They cannot see how personal transformation is possible for them. They believe that they are the way they are, and that there’s nothing they can do about it.

Winners understand that they can begin where they are, with their current limitations, but begin working towards where they want to go, and as time passes they will start getting better and better and eventually they will close the gap and they will become who they need to be, to manifest whatever it is they want.

This process of going after what you want, and making it happen, gives you the confidence to be able to be this cocky person.

I always say that in order for techniques to work, you have to fix your inner problems.

This is the most important part of succeeding at anything.
Arnold can get away with being this super cocky man, because he has put it in the work.

And let me tell you that in my personal experience, you can build towards that, you can begin right now by choosing want it is you want and then begin moving in that direction, at first you won’t be able to work that hard, especially if you are coming from a very low level where you have all sorts of mental, emotional and physical issues, but as time passes you stay on the path, and see progress, and then progress starts to accelerate, because you become more and more confident and more focused and you go faster with less friction.

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This is something that I think makes Arnold very interesting, he got the whole bodybuilding industry going, now this is a huge industry, lots of people are obsessed with building muscle. Think about it.

Before Arnold there where not many people trying to build muscle, in fact most of those really big bodybuilders where viewed with disgust.

Men didn’t care about muscles. Now almost every single man out there is obsessed with his physique and he wants to have huge muscles. He is walking around all day, looking in the mirror and flexing trying to see how big his muscles are.

All of this wasn’t happening before Arnold. Arnold made muscles sexy. Arnold made muscles almost a priority, a must have in every man’s life to be able to be cool.

Before nobody cared, people with big muscles were viewed as freaks, they didn’t attract women, they were just freaks, after Arnold most men out there believe that if they don’t have a six pack they can forget about attracting a very hot girl.

That’s insane, and is a very interesting phenomena of how social conditioning works, whatever culture is telling people to value, they begin valuing, is not even that they really want this things, they don’t know what they want, they just want to fit in, so now that muscles are a thing that is consider cool, they all are working super hard to get the muscles and be cool.

But of course is not the muscles, muscles is just something that Arnold loved, he loved that and he was so fucking cool that he made the entire world, specially America into a country obsessed with having big muscles.

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Arnold: People think it’s sexy (my accent) which I don’t blame them for saying so.

Cocky, and funny, yeah I’m sexy and I know it.

This is a huge display of confidence, and of course you have to balance it with the humor and you can see that the humor is there in the case of Arnold he is executing this attraction formula perfectly.

Somebody that also does this a lot is president Donald Trump, although Trump doesn’t use humor, he says things like I will go down as the greatest president of America, and he fully owns it, his frame is incredibly strong, he believes in himself, he admires himself, and of course this frames him as higher value.

When you come in contact with people that love themselves and are super confident, you cannot help but like them, because most people are not that confident, they have been conditioned to be humble, and are walking around pretending to be all humble and the reality is they are afraid of being great, because great men get a lot of attention and responsibility, and this means they are faced with a lot of pressure.

I’ve studied this and noticed that a ton of successful people are this way, very cocky.

They frame themselves as winners, as champs, they are not afraid of affirming how great they are, think about Cristiano Ronaldo, the same thing, the same principle, this people are winning, they are major players in their respective fields, and they all use this technique or they all have this frame, where they are always talking about how great they are, when asked if they believe they are the best, they will immediately tell you of course I’m the best.

This goes against what most people have been conditioned to do.

It also depends on the culture of the country that you find yourself in, some countries like for example third world countries are huge in this humility factor, they are the underdogs, they have this mentality that they must remain very small and humble, this values are promoted and conditioned in their minds since childhood.

And this sometimes influences them in a very negative way, for example athletes grow up and because they want to remain humble, they don’t assume the role of I’m the best.

They think that saying that about themselves is something bad, because they would stop being humble, being small, being the underdog, they would become too cocky and they hate being too cocky because they were conditioned to think about being cocky in a very negative light.

This is all very important to think about specially if you are thinking about becoming great at anything, think about your own conditioning, you were probably also conditioned to be careful and to not be too cocky.

Well I’m showing you that maybe you want to reconsider this, and to begin framing you as the best, assume that identity, talk great things about yourself.

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Oh sure I took steroids.

This indicates a lot of confidence, self-worth, his ability to own and accept his actions, and be ok with them.

I imagine is not easy for anybody to come to a national TV show and accept in front of millions of people watching that you consumed a drug to make you look bigger.

It requires balls to be able to just say, yeah sure, I did, most people wouldn’t do that, most people try to hide all sorts of things about themselves, because they have a lot of guilt and shame and fear of the consequences of their acts, so to be able to talk that openly about a delicate subject like that, is a huge display of courage and also indicates that he is totally comfortable being himself.

A lot of people will be very quick to judge somebody that injects anything, including steroids, it’s something that carries a certain negative stigma around it, that’s why most people try to lie about their steroid usage.

Arnold on the other hands shocks everybody with his straight forward transparent answer.

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Letterman is commenting about how the Kennedys feel about having Arnold as a new addition to the family, and Arnold says “it’s the best thing that ever happen to the family”

This says a lot about Arnolds level of entitlement, and again he uses the technique of cocky and funny a formula of attraction, that works every time, he acts super cocky, has the humor behind it, bum.

That’s it, that’s all you need.

Everybody will laugh and everybody concludes you are high status, when you do this you are framing yourself as higher status, and people accept it.

They cannot NOT accept it, because you are sure about it, and if there’s some humor in it people laugh.

When you understand this cocky and funny formula you will begin to see it everywhere, especially around very successful people. You will see them act cocky, superior, funny, self-amused.

11:44 Good acting in it, simply because of me. A

gain the same formula, by now, you can probably recognize it, but is not enough to just watch it a couple of times, you have to keep reminding yourself again and again of this ideas so that they begin to stick in your subconscious and then you can use them without even thinking about it too much, they just come out, whenever you need them.

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