So a few months ago I got a message in my James Bond Frame Control video.

The message said this:

“Guys, if You don't have looks of James Bond, girls will never look at you like they would at James Bond. No matter how confident you are and how strong you control your frame. Look at Stephen Merchant. He is confident and well in control of his frame, and look how women treating him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R04AOcgKLkg If you don't have a looks you eat breadcrumbs of the floor”.

So at his point I didn’t even know who Stephen Merchant was, so I was curious and decided to take a look at the clip. And I was immediately shocked! I was shocked that the man from the comment couldn’t notice the HUGE difference in subcommunications.

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So the comment of this man got me thinking.

He literally COULD NOT SEE IT!

He couldn’t see all of these little things going on, he could only see the physical looks. And I remembered that there was a point in my life where I also couldn’t see it.

When I was younger my model of how attraction worked was pretty much like the guy from the comment.

I thought that LOOKS was everything. And by LOOKS I mean pure physical looks, I wasn’t even aware of how depending on the way you feel your face actually changes and becomes more attractive, I wasn’t able to see the sly smile for example, or the steady relaxed eye contact, the smooth vocal tonality, or the lack of fear in the most attractive men.

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Think about this because this is important.

There’s people walking around right now on this earth who are still navigating reality with the map that I had at 18 years old, they are only able to perceive certain things, and their brains literally don’t have the connections to enable them to see this deeper subtleties in reality, here specifically referring to what makes a man attractive or not.

I plan to go really deep maybe I’ll make an entire program that explains that evolution in paradigms that I’ve had along my journey.

My understating of attraction has now evolved to the point of what I call the quantum paradigm of attraction.

I call it like that because I went from this very limited understanding of PHYSICAL LOOKS are what’s causing attraction, to now seeing attraction as something that happens based on the observer effect.

I won’t go too deep into quantum physics but in physics, the observer effect is the theory that the mere observation of a phenomenon inevitably changes that phenomenon.

So for example when you talk to a girl if you feel that you are attractive, if you feel entitled, if you see the girl and in your mind conclude that yes she is going to be attracted to me, then this is going to happen.

I can explain this by giving several examples, but to understand it you have to test it by yourself, and one of the easiest ways for you to test this is to go out to a busy street, and just start extending your hand like you want to say hi and shake hands with every single girl that is passing, while you do this pay attention to all of your subcommunications, the clarity of your frame, meaning the clarity of your intent, you want the girl to stop and to shake your hand, that’s it.

Now depending on your level if you are advanced you are going to have a lot of clarity of intent, you are going to be confident, strong, clear, smooth, so the girls will see you extending your hand and they will shake it and say hi, or if you are a beginner you are going to be all over the place, you are going to be afraid, you are not even going to be able to extend your arm fully, because you will have a ton of fear, doubt, shame, you are going to feel incredibly silly, you are going to laugh like a little girl.

All of this is your subcommunications at play, pay attention to all the thoughts, to all the feelings firing inside of you while doing this exercise, maybe you are so bad that you cannot even do the exercise.

I still struggle with this by the way, sometimes I feel so awkward, and no girl will take my hand, but other times I feel the confidence and all of the sudden I get very clear, and boom I see the girl coming I extend my hand she sees me she understands what I want the frame is very clear and then she takes my hand and its ON from the very first moment.

As you keep practicing your subcommunications change, you become super smooth, your intent becomes clearer, your entitlement grows, all fear, doubt and disbelief banishes and you are able to stop more and more girls. So going back to the man that wrote the comment, he is not aware of all of these different subcommunications and you cannot fix what you are not aware of.