To evoke a woman’s sexual part of her personality you must be totally comfortable with your own sexuality.

It’s really not about learning some technique, some magic line that you say and all of the sudden you send the woman that you are talking to into a sexual hypnotic trance where all of her sexual desires are automatically pushed to the surface with no resistance at all.

To be able to allow the sexual part of a woman to come out you must be the man that she finds first of all sexually attractive, and then she must feel 100% safe about opening up and letting go of all of the filters and resistance that she has to expressing her sexual drives.

Now what I said here is very important, she has sexual drives, she wants to FUCK, or make love, or whatever you want to call it, she wants to DO IT, this is one of those ideas that to me at the beginning of learning all of this, I founded incredibly hard to believe.

I was educated to believe that women were this sort of angelical creatures that didn’t have any sort of dirty thoughts or desires.

And by the way, the way in which I’m phrasing this idea, the words that I’m using already indicate the huge underlying problem that most men have about sex.

If you pay attention I used words like angelical and dirty, this all implies that even thinking about sex is bad, is a sin, is something that goes against the highest possible morals, sex is a dirty thing and women are better than us dirty men because they have less sexual impure thoughts as us.

All of those ideas were inside of me, because they were programmed by the culture in which I grew up.

They taught me this in school, they taught me this at home.

So of course as I grew up and my sexual drive became FULLY ON, I was in a predicament because a part of me was possessed by the ideas of sex, and then this other part of me the conditioned part was possessed by the ideas that sex is bad.

Now before I continue I want to take a moment to describe how this inner beliefs have a practical consequence in reality, because you may find yourself reading about this beliefs and thinking ok but what does this has to do with actually seeing a girl you like approaching her meeting her and having sex with her.

Well having the right beliefs in place is what allows you to naturally and effortlessly flirt with a woman in the right way.

Joking around, teasing, inserting statements of intent, having the right tonality, the right eye contact, all of these external manifestations of behavior come from a certain inner reality.

For example when you begin to see woman as sexual creatures that just like you or other men are thinking about sex and want to have sex, is going to be manifested in your attitude in your demeanor when you talk to them. Before finding out about this truth, I was walking around with the belief that women didn’t like sex, and so when I interacted with a women I felt that I somehow had to trick this women, persuade this women, fool this women into bed.

I still remember that I always wanted to get them drunk, I used to hang around with my friends of school, and we used to drink and whenever there where girls present, we tried to get them to drink because we were assuming that in order for this women to have sex they needed to be drunk otherwise they wouldn’t do it.

This beliefs that I had manifested in all sort of irrational behavior, another example was that I also believed that good valuable respectable girls, the ones that I really wanted, were never going to have sex with you or even kiss you outside a formal relationship, so of course this manifested in me taking on the strategy of asking a girl to be my girlfriend an establishing a serious relationship with her, and escalating very slowly month after month towards sex.

All of these things that I did were wrong, because my beliefs were wrong, they made me waste so much time, and they made me act like a retard around girls. As a result I suffered a lot, and of course getting laid became this incredibly difficult accomplishment.

So yeah I hope you see the huge impact of how your beliefs matter and have real world consequences. Sometimes very serious consequences.

Today I see beliefs as a map.

I’m not identified with any belief. I know that at a certain level they are all false, but I still use some of these beliefs as maps.

Maps of reality that help me navigate this complex world.
So now the map that I have about girls and sex is totally different.

Today this map is very simple.

They like sex, they want to have sex, like really bad, they enjoy it as much as I do, so if they find an attractive man, is a good thing for them to end up having sex.

And of course I also know what makes a man attractive, by the way this is the topic of another post but my map about what women find attractive was also very wrong and most men’s maps are totally wrong, they are navigating this reality with maps that are taking them to very bad places.

They are lost, trying to find their way with the wrong map, for example trying to build huge muscles at the gym, making lots of money, taking penis enlargement pills.

So when you start to see women for what they really are, you start to let go of all the unconscious negative programming that you have about sex and women, you start to embrace your sexuality, you start to gain confidence about who you really are and you let those traits flow naturally, you don’t block them anymore, because you have realized that all of the brainwashing that society did to you was wrong.

Then all of the sudden you will start to see how women open up to you sexually.

They will feel safe with you, this subconscious ideas that people have are in a very real way being subcommunicated all of time.

Is not like the girl sees the thought in your head that says I believe that you don’t like sex as much as me therefore I need to chase you desperately and convince or bribe you or fool you into sex.

But they feel the energy, they feel the eye contact, they feel the tone of voice, they hear the words.

The frame that you are going to build is going to be very different depending on your beliefs about women and sex.

Now you expect women to be sexual, this is something that you will see more and more as you fully integrate and internalize this new beliefs, women will start being more sexual with you, they will start bringing up the topic of sex, they will tell you things that they haven’t told anybody else and they will do things with you that they’ve always wanted to do, but couldn’t do it because every other man out there judges them, and has hang ups about sex.

This also matters when it comes to how fast girls will sleep with you, this depends on how ok you are with girls having sex fast. I wasn’t ok with this for a very long time, for me a girl that slept with a man very fast was a slut, period. And guess what, girls weren’t having sex with me fast.

So I had to let go of that belief.

You let go by seeing it, accepting is there, realizing that is stupid, and just allowing it to dissolve, is something that doesn’t serve you, is not true and is holding you and the girls that you interact with back from expressing your sexuality to the max.

Now there’s also the energetic competent to all of this, the negativity, the fear, the guilt, the shame that this ideas about sex create. I don’t want to make this post-super long so I will leave the energetic emotional competent for the next one.

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